


kink is not a dirty word
Why is kink used as a healing modality
where it comes from
sacred sexuality
pleasure
temple
why we do this
reclaiming pleasure
deep feminine
heart based
Kink can be beautiful and healing if held correctly.
Dani and I have the most epic conversations about this topic, it involves wine, chocolate and having Soul opening realisations about the tabooest of taboos..
Last night, we spoke about dominance and submission.
That in a person’s submission- they really need to feel safe and held by the dominant, otherwise they can’t submit.
That if in this dynamic the ‘dominant’ or leader is not strong, does not hold safe space for you to truely submit and unravel - that it can cause a contraction in the submissive, teaching them that they are not actually safe to open up.
How many of us can relate to this and say that we have not truly been held by our partners?
And how many of us realise that we are not really holding ourselves?
And I can tell you, with full clarity that once you find your inner dom, the nurturing part of you, that can hold epic space, and makes it their job to not only please, but to also protect..
That reads the subtleties of your body and cares about your yes’s and your no’s..
.. That it can be a life changing experience and an energy that you carry out into the world.
It helps you stand your ground, and can be done softly if integrated well.
The same goes for the submissive, when they learn its safe to say ‘no’ and feel when its a real ‘yes’ in their own body - they can learn to do this while relating in the world.
They learn to open up and feel safe to receive.
We teach people in a heart-led way - where they get to experience and explore these sides of them in a safe space.
For us this is about healing as much as it is about fun.
We have a women’s temple night coming up this Friday, October 13th and we’d love you to be apart of this community we’re creating.
